A blog dedicated to my Memere who lovingly called me her little chickadee

A blog dedicated to my Memere who lovingly called me her little chickadee

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Happy Birthday Memere

Today would have been my Memere's 86th birthday. 

I had some pictures to share with you but am having some technical difficulties. I must wait for The Husband for help.  The pictures will be on tonight, I hope!

To avoid my own tears I will not go into a heart wrenching post about my Grandmother but instead will list some things I will always remember when I think of her . . .


  • She was always in the kitchen
  • She was a great cook and could make anything without a recipe
  • She made the best grilled cheese sandwiches
  • And the best cookies
  • OK, all the food she made was the best!
  • She was a great wife
  • She was the best Grandmother
  • Every morning she stood at the sink and looked out the window while she had her coffee.  I always wondered what she was thinking about.
  • She liked to gamble
  • She loved to play cards, she taught me and we would often sit at the kitchen table and play for pennies!
  • She loved to play Bingo (if I remember correctly, every week)
  • She used her lipstick for blush
  • She convinced me when I was a child that she was Darla on The Little Rascals
  • She let me eat dessert before dinner
  • She let me play in the "dirt pile" (this is what we called my Grandfather's soil for his landscaping business) with her kitchen spoons
  • She let me shower in the rain
  • She wouldn't use the phone during thunder storms and if it was a really bad one, she sat in the staircase. (it was in the middle of the house and she thought this would keep her safe)
  • She liked country music
  • She wore the worst 70's polyester clothes (but not when she went out, thank goodness!)
  • She could sew and made her own dresses on occasion
  • She knew how to crochet
  • She knew how to knit and taught me
  • She liked and collected ginger jars
  • We watched The Love Boat and Fantasy Island together on Friday nights 
  • When we watched T.V. she would tickle my neck
  • She washed her feet every night before she went to bed.  I remember finding this strange, but now I kind of understand.
  • She once let me take a sip of her vodka! (I think I was maybe 10!!)
  • She survived 2 heart attacks (after her first, I spent the entire summer with her, caring for her)
  • She was opinionated
  • She once let me watch the Exorcist; I think I was 9 or 10.  I'm still wondering about her decision to let that occur?!?!  I didn't sleep for three months!
  • When we went grocery shopping she always let me get one can of Chef-Boyardee (this was huge because everything she made was from scratch)
  • She did her hair with curlers
  • I loved to give her hugs (she was overweight and squishy!)
  • I loved the way she smelled
  • She loved me

Grandmother-grandchild relationships are simple. Grandmas are short on criticism and long on love.” 
 Author Unknown

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